This final chapter of the book starts out with a story of a
chaotic day in her classroom. This is a day where everything seems to be going
wrong and it just keeps getting worse. We have students that are fighting in
the back of the room, others that are sleeping, and others that are getting
kicked out of their houses. How do we as
teachers go on teaching when we have a day like this? What do we focus on? The
fighting kids, sleeping kids, or kids that need to be consoled. Do we just go
on with our lesson like nothing is happening? How do we make these choices?
What choices do we make when we decide to give up part of our lesson to help
out a student with personal problems? Do we just ignore all these students and
act like they will be attentive and actually retain what we are trying to teach
them? None of us are perfect and we will have to make some hard choices when it
comes to teaching. We have to pick our battles and pick them wisely. When we
decide to punish or help out another student, how many students are we leaving
to fend for themselves who are actually ready and willing to learn? Tovani
states that, “ I can make good choices among all these options only when I have
a clear purpose in mind.” With this in mind we have to ask ourselves what is
our goal? What is the benefit for every decision that I make?
She gives a poem out to the students that is titled Did I Miss Anything? It talks about how
students come in after being late or missing a day of class and ask ‘Did I miss
anything?’ She says the real question should be ‘Did I Miss Everything?’ We as
teachers should have every moment mean something to our students. We should
always be teaching them and making every moment count. We have the opportunity
to make a difference in these students lives. When a student misses a part of
the lesson are they able to catch up and figure out what you taught them
without holding everyone else back?
I really appreciated the last section of the chapter where
she wraps it all up. It is titled We’ll
Never have all the Answers. I really appreciated this section because it
reminds me that we are all still learning and if we think we have all the
answers and stop trying to learn we will be of no help to our students. They
need us to always be on our toes and constantly moving forward with them. We can
learn from them as easily as they can learn from us. Tovani talks about how a
teacher had written a review on Amazon for her previous book and found another
teachers review of her book. This
review said how she assumed that the book would give her a quick fix approach
to her classroom problems and found instead that it forced her to re-evaluate
her own instructional approaches instead. She said this was far better than a
quick fix because there are no quick fixes and there is no one way that will
work for every classroom.
This is the end of this blog. Thanks for reading
and I hope you found my interpretation of this book to be informational and as
good of a learning experience as I have.